Looks Like we Made it!
Tuesday, October 28, 2014
Sunday, January 12, 2014
Monday, January 6, 2014
You see what had happened was...
It may not seem like much, but to us this is a HUGE deal. A few months ago the idea of the Lesbutante and the Bo$$ was just that - an idea...Two friends who wanted to do something - something real, something big, something meaningful. A decorated war vet with a wicked mind for business; a newly-relocated event designer with a desire to plan events for her people... what would or could they do together? The answers came in the strangest of places. Two gorgeous friends of ours had planned a speed-dating event to honor how they had met and we could NOT stay out of it. The Bo$$ wanted to know the whos and wheres. She can make the connections - she can talk to people. The Lesbutante wanted to know the hows and whys - she can dress up a joint. The odd "couple" of the group: a bossy Yankee and an even bossier debutante pulled it together and the rest is what we hope becomes her-story.Now we are hosting our 2nd Lesbian Happy Hour of 100 lovely ladies. Listed in THE social bible for Austin - The Chronicle - and not just online, it is in the PAPER!!We hope you join us on the blog and on the book of face at https://www.facebook.com/thelesbutanteandtheboss.
2014 is going to be a big year for our community. Stick with us kids!XOXO,L&B
Monday, October 21, 2013
Top 3 Dating Tips!
Here
are 3 of OUR top tips that you that will not
only help you love yourself more, but also so help prepare you to love and
receive love from a future mate.
Be Honest
If you can’t be honest with yourself, how can you be honest with others?
Honesty is important for any genuine relationship, especially the one we have
with ourselves. Sometimes, I think that we forget to separate the fantasy of
what we want from the reality of what we need. As a result, we find ourselves
lost, confused and sometimes desperate looking for a way out. This is the point
where people usually find themselves stuck because instead of focusing on the
root of the problem, they are focusing on the quick fix.
Pay attention to your actions and reactions. It easy for us to get distracted with responsibilities and find ourselves stuck on autopilot. A lot of times, I find that people get caught up taking on responsibilities and emotions that really serve them no purpose. It’s wasted energy.
We all have our good days and bad days and sometimes, insecurities can get the better of us. It would be unrealistic to say that you should never have a bad day ever. It just doesn’t work that way and anyone who says that they are 100% confident all the time has a good poker face.
When you do get into a relationship, you will be better equipped to love that person, flaws and all.
The
truth can be scary, but you have to take the good with the bad and own it. If
it’s a positive truth, then live by it. If it’s a negative truth, then you have
the option of either working towards changing it or working towards accepting
it.
This
honesty will bring you clarity within yourself and will also allow you to be
more honest and clear about what you need in a relationship.
Stop, Look and Listen!
Everything
you do should serve your purpose. If you find yourself in a place where you
feel like you are just going through the motions, take a time out to stop and
reevaluate things. No matter how big or small the task at hand or how major or
minor the info you are receiving, ask yourself: How will actions or reaction to this situation
serve purpose?
If it doesn’t serve a
positive purpose, don’t subscribe to it. Trust me, this will eliminate a lot of
the drama and unnecessary BS from your life and that new energy will attract
people who are on the same level. Nobody wants a high-maintenance partner.
Eliminate The Negative
Self-Talk
A
lot of confidence issues stem from comparisons we make between ourselves and
the lives of those we know. Those comparisons are reinforced with negative
self-talk and that talk is what tricks us into thinking that we are not good
enough.
When
you find yourself lost in a sea of negative self-talk, just replace it with
positive talk. Look at your accomplishments, big or small, and celebrate them.
If something is really bothering you, transform that bad juju into productive
energy and get to work on changing that situation.
#likeaboss
#likealesbutante
XOXO L & B
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